
Happy new year everyone!
It’s a great time of year to reflect on past experiences and work on actionable future goals. Here is my 2019 in review:
Highlights:
1. Continuing to work with coaching clients on a one-on-one basis.
I especially appreciate being able to hone my ability to listen and to ask open-ended questions which not only helps facilitate a good coaching experience for the client, it also helps me immensely in other aspects of my personal and professional life.
2. Going on a 10 day trip to Turkey in May. I fell in love with mystical Istanbul and had wonderful adventures throughout the country with my G Adventures group and good friend Christine.Â
I am ever so grateful to my husband and son for supporting my independent travel and for my clinic partner Kristine for holding down the clinic fort so that I can enjoy this passion without worrying about my work responsibilities.
3. Hosting my mother-in-law’s 80th birthday party at my cottage in early December. There were 25 people spread over cottages (mine and two other rented ones on the same property) for the 3 day celebration.
I learned that I am less likely to get overwhelmed by large social gatherings if I feel comfortable in my environment and can plan out the itinerary so that it’s in alignment with my energetic needs. I also learned that I can cook eggs and bacon for 25 people pretty easily!
4. Seeing the growth of our acting school (of which I am the Administrative Director). Â My husband and I added a new teacher in March. Shaun started observing classes in January, which was a great way to introduce him to current students and to get his name out there. Â Shaun continued to participate in John’s classes even when he started teaching his own classes in March and in September we created a class where John + Shaun both co-taught. Â This allowed for students to get the opportunity to be taught by two teachers, which is a unique experience not usually found in professional acting schools.Â
It reinforced the importance of being patient with on-boarding a new team member as well as the importance of team work and collaboration in our business.
5. Learning to accept all the physical changes which come with being a 46 year old woman (soon to be turning 47 next week!).
I was happy with my ability to carry a 35 lb backpack + physical stamina for a strenuous 3 day hike near Jasper, Alberta this summer. I was less enamoured to discover increased soreness in my feet post-hike compared to previous years.  In December I sprained my back working out with weights and the healing time was more than double the usual (close to 4 weeks). These physical ailments forced me to confront age-related changes to healing  and have made me more empathetic to my patients’ frustrations with pain. I need to remember that the other side of the aging coin is all the amazing wisdom gained through experience and to try to be more compassionate with myself in 2020.
[originally published January 2020]
